There are certain people in life where you can tell every thought, every happiness, every frustration, and every emotion that runs through your blood.

And those select few will rarely ever hastily judge you unless you are acting like a blatant idiot which is also something to give thanks...that those will slap some sense into you when you need it...that they will tell you the reality whether you like it or not.

Those few will always in the end, make me laugh with inside jokes and make me understand who I am when I lose track of myself.

There are those few who I can trust to the ends of the earth...I give thanks. 

 Thank you...

JSF and JWY

=)!!!!!!

People have noticed I haven't posted in a while. I know. I've been out and about, loving and enjoying life. I even kept thinking that I don't have much to write about from writer's block because of my easy-going perspective on just being...living in the moment. However, the more I age, the more I notice and think about desperate women who are my age or older. It is certainly a disease I tell ya!

Desperation is cetainly a disease in women. It is almost incurable when a woman believes she should make her life a living hell just so she can keep a guy around.

Why is Desperate Housewives such a popular show? Because women relate to desperation. BUT, it is acceptable when you are married and desperate.

When a woman is desperate and single, it might be the biggest cardinal sin known to man. And I mean men, straight men.

Why do women bend over backwards to impress men? Why is the norm for women to become a complete doormat just for men? WHY?!?!?!

I am going to ask and analyze some serious questions and scenarios to the desperate women out there.

When a woman has a girlfriend who is completely needy, clingy and is always and only complaining, do women accept it and love that friend? I don't think so. Women are the first to judge and also disrespect another woman who is acting like an unresonable quack but yet they don't realize how much of a psycho/stalker they can be themselves when meeting a man.

The more you love yourself and respect yourself, the more men will follow. Men might love aesthetics. Men might always be in tune with appearance and big titties or a nice round ass, but it really doesn't go very far. Men like what they see and they are so weak, weaker than women because they don't have self-control when a ditzy hot girl throws everything at them all at once.

Women still believe that men will follow them just because they are sweet and nice. Hello? I will give you some earth-shattering advice...

Most women are usually always sweet and nice. Women were born with a more tender and caring heart than men. Come on, we were tainted to carry another human being in our bellies. Men already expect that women are dainty little things who are dependent upon men.

Seriously, and I beg, and beg for women to not believe that happiness will come when they find the "right" man to come along in their lives. I want women to be more confident and be happy and content with themselves before finding a partner in life. The man that comes along to make a life complete is just an addendum. That man shouldn't be your EVERYTHING. That man is just a supplement to your well-being. If he is gone, he is gone, it shouldn't make or break your life. He should be something that brings you a bit more laughter and smiles into your life but shouldn't ever be your ALL.

Life has truly evolutionalized. Life is different since the time of the mere purpose of pro-creation. People are much more advanced in the way they live their lives as well as advancing to a more fair and civilized way of being.

Why am I so disgusted when I see a woman carrying two infants on the airplane with tons of baggage and strollers without the hubby and asks everyone around them to feel sorry for them and help them? Nobody told you to have babies. Nobody told you to travel alone with babies. Get freaking over it. You don't look like you need help, you just look completely pathetic.

I have vowed not to be happy just because I have a good guy in my life. It is easy for that to be the source of happiness in a woman's life. But what if it doesn't end in a fairy tale way? I don't want to throw away my life just to please a man in the hopes of winning a man's heart. Who gives a sh*t about that man's heart? It is my heart that is more important. It is me that is ultimately going to love life and give life.

I was young before and basically threw my life away just so I could see my man everyday. Boy, am I thankful that it happened when I was so young and naive. But thinking back, if I never had that experience, I would have never learned what I know now.

I could go on writing pages upon pages of what women do wrong, but I will leave it at that. If a woman is smart enough, I think they will get what I have covered.

Again, I don't need to write some bs disclaimer. If you hate it, you hate it. It's not going to deter me from my thoughts.

When I was majoring in Fashion Design before 2002, one of my classmates convinced our illustration class with a presentation that women should wear more make-up. I totally agreed and I was 20.

I walk around and sometimes I really have to wonder why some women just totally let themselves go. Do they not have enough respect for themselves to not want to look good? Have they given up on life? Or do they look in the mirror and believe they are content with what they see? Or do they just not look in the mirror at all?

I don't need excuses from women who are married and too busy with a million kids. If you give your kids an excuse to look unkept, you already have a problem right there. That problem will lead to your husband lusting over a younger and hotter little lady. Men will and ALWAYS will have a wandering eye. If you let yourself go, of course your man will have a more blatant wandering eye. And you get jealous? No jealousy should be involved because you just let yourself go overboard.

I am writing this because I want women to be more empowered with every single aspect we have over men. Men don't have even a quarter of options that we have to empower us. Equality you say? F*ck equality. Men will never be equal to us nor will we ever be equal to men. You know why? Equality would bring us to the same features as a man to a woman and a woman to a man. Essentially, we'd probably look like what we think aliens look like. Androgynous.

Play up your features. Love yourself. And I'm not telling women to look like a clown. Some women just don't know how to use make-up right. Some women use too less and look sooooo washed out. Some women put too much and look like a drag queen. You've got to learn what looks best on you.

Unless you are naturally beautiful like Jane Goodall who gave up her life for the life of chimps and aren't around modern society, you shouldn't believe that the everyday person in a capitalistic society would beautify you for your good deeds to humanity or the animal kingdom because you aren't really doing those good deeds and probably never will but work and live in this society looking like a bore.  

I look at women and think, "dang, you could be so much better but you just don't get it." And nobody is going to tell you straight up because you are fragile and wouldn't take it very well. If I said something, most women would call me a biaatch and say, "well, wtf does she know?" Trust me, I work in the industry and have seen more naked women known to mankind. I know when a girl has too skinny legs to fit into my most leg-showing mini. I know when a girl has too big of knockers to look elegant in an evening gown. I just know.

I do tell my closest friends because they respect my opinion and they won't be offended because they are the ones who asked for it.

Celebrities? Most celebrities look like the girl next door but with the exception that they have superb make-up artists. You think Demi Moore walks around the house looking like his mother? No. She makes it a point to look good for him so she doesn't have competition with the girls who are much younger than her.

This world has become certainly a digital world. Everything is HD. I am never going to be the one who hides from a camera because I was the one who didn't put any make-up on. I am going to be the one everyone hates because I actually put an effort into looking good.

I can tell you, I am not gorgeous like Angelina Jolie whatsoever. But I am always picture perfect.

Women of this world, love thyselves some more.