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Wednesday, March 23, 2005

 

Thoughts on Love

Just wanna share with you this piece of interesting article on the thoughts of love my friend forwarded to me...

Learn to love the people who are with you at present. Forget the people in the past and thank them for hurting you, which led you to love the people you have right now. When you love someone, you'll do crazy things you can't explain, you'll deny the truth and believe in lies. When you love someone, you sacrifice, give everything you've
got and don't think twice. You risk it all no matter what.

Everything in life is temporary because everything hanges. That is why it takes courage to love, knowing it might end anytime... having faith will make it last. True: Lucky is the man who wins the first love of a woman but luckier is the woman who wins the last love of a man. Life has a way of changing things but not the joy that friendship brings, for friendship is like the shining moon, makes each night a brighter one.

Love is not for beauty or color of the skin, but for a  heart that is loyal within, for beauty fades and the skin would grow old but a heart that is loyal will never turn cold. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE! Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pain,
but if you don't follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.

Don't run ahead of God. Let Him direct your steps. He has plans and He has His time. God's clock is never one minute early nor one minute late. It always strikes right on time. If someone loves you, love them back not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you
have never seen or felt without them.

The past is meant to be used as a tool for the future. Bad experiences indeed make you bitter but the lessons learned should make you better. When you find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, lips that will kiss you in both instances,and a heart that will love you at your worst, then you have found true love.

Someday, someone might come into your life and love you in a way you always wanted. If your someday was yesterday, LEARN; if your someday is tomorrow, HOPE; if your someday is today, CHERISH. Let go of the hand of the person you love, but don't let go of God's hand. For when you hold on to His hand, He may be holding the person you love on the
other hand,to let you hold each other again.

If you're afraid to love a person because of friendship, you have two choices; either tell what you feel and let love take its place or forever hide the feeling under a friendship full of pretences. It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one available. Best to wait for the one you love than the one who's around. Best to wait for the right one 'cause life's too short to be wasted on just someone.

If you feel love, don't lose a grip on it, you'll never know the one you let go was the one you waited for all your life. We can never understand joy till we feel sorrow, faith till we're tested, peace till we're faced with conflicts, trust till we're betrayed, and love till it's gone.

Love is not a matter of finding the right person but rather creating the right relationship. The important question is not how much love there is at the beginning but how much there is at the end. Sometimes no matter how secure you are in someone's arms and no matter how tightly you hold on to this person's hand, you'll find yourself
falling...dangerously in love with someone else...


So what's your thoughts about LOVE now?


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