Hey guys have u ever had a friend that has just been there for u no matter what? you feel you are the best and the best comes out of you when u are with this person. but then how does it work that u can fight not talk for days and then make up so fast because its your bestfriend and you know no matter what happens you know the two of u will make up some how some way. some times you can do it by yourselfs and sometimes it requires some help from someone els to make you realize that u to love each other and no matter what happend it can be fixed and there once again right with u is your bestfriend. its like a fake marrige they are there with u thorgh better or for worse and they say i do when they say to u that they are your bestfriend.
Have u ever had a friend that you know is having a hard time and u think hmmmmm what can i do to make them better? like maybe if i could hold this person in your arms that they would know that even though there going through a hard time that your there and that would be the comfort that they needed and then they might know what it is to really be loved. so that brings up love what is it and how do i picture love? but at that time love has lots of meanings like is it a love of careing or a love of i want this person to know that know matter what i will always be there for them. so would that mean love comes in a friend way and a couple way? because they say they love u but u only have the mirror image of what that means only the person that says it knows the kind of love they feel for you. of course we would want it to be the way we picture it when u say love u want the other person to mean the same thing u do so then you would have that comfort that hey this person really loves me no matter what happens. But ufortontly thats not how it is and thats why realationships dont work out like the fairy tale we would all want them to be. because theres always that one person your first love when love at the time ment the same for both. untill days weeks months and maybe if u where lucky years went by and the fairy tale ended and the nightmare began. then you reflect to your self and beat your self up asking. how did i. how did they. let such a great thing pass up or slip by like that? then u question yourself again how is it that i let such a great thing pass by when is this bad dream over and ill wake up. u say its your fault all blame on u because of u putting it there. what could i have done to make it better or save it? but there is nothing u can because all that it means is that there is another one with the same likes dislikes and if not at first then later on they will come. only those that are lucky get it right the first time and sure we envey them but now u know what u want and need your kinda of likes dislikes and the most important your kind of LOVE. that u want to share with that special person so all u have to do is give them a chance let them prove them selvs but then the hardest task of all comes along how do i let go of my first love...................................................
And that is when u have to say do i move on to be happier or stay to be hurt time after time? friends tell you to move on but if only they understood like u did. how long will take for the person to move on forget about the person we wonder and guess but we will never know when they have actculy let go and for that person they might not even know when they have really let go.
Hey this is just something to think about cause it affects everyone and the two most key things to having a bestfriend and the true meaning of love to u and only u and hey this way if people know the truth it only works out for the better so the meaning of this is for u to find out the meaning and take the time to sit and really think to figure out stay and get hurt or move on and be happy you think it would be a easy choice to some it may but for most of us it isnt is it........... you decide..........then maybe u know who u love and who truely your bestfriends are.
A person once said keep your friends close and your BESTFRIENDS closest cause u never know how long u will have them for what a friend that person must of been
But thats the iorny of this thats what we thought. we knew. we where taught. all along isnt it so does that make that person you.....................
I guess we will never know who that person was or at least we wont untill we realize that THAT person is us.
Let me know in the comments have these questions ever crossed your mind and if so what was the awnser that u came up with for itor did u and if they havent ever crossed your mund what do u think know. thanks guys
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